At the start of 2020, Chef Kibby seemed to have it all—a thriving catering business, a new event space, a podcast, and a side gig teaching college courses. But at home, things were falling apart. Parenting children from outside their family of origin presented challenges he wasn’t prepared for. His efforts to connect weren’t working, behaviors weren’t improving, and discipline felt futile. Feeling overwhelmed, he retreated into his work—until the pandemic forced him to pause and reevaluate.
When his business closed and his escape was gone, Chef Kibby faced a parenting crisis head-on. In that struggle, he stumbled upon a transformative realization: food isn’t just about nourishment—it’s about connection. By focusing on the simple act of feeding and being fed, Chef Kibby found a way to build trust, create safety, and deepen relationships with his children. Now, he’s on a mission to share this approach with other foster and adoptive parents, helping them find peace and connection through the language of the body.
